frying pan? or fire? hmmm….

October 25, 2010

this past week i had blog burnout. literally no interest whatsoever in anything blog-related. i always promised myself that i would only blog as long as i was still enjoying it, and last week i was giving myself so much anxiety over the fact that i couldn’t for the life of me think of something [...]

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sorority secrets revealed.

October 23, 2010

ok, so i went to byu, also known as #1 stone-cold sober school since time immemorial. many of you might not know this (or even care), but there are no fraternities or sororities at byu. not even one. so i have no idea what a sorority might be like, but i always thought the idea [...]

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mind trip.

October 21, 2010

hey. i’m on a self-imposed mental health vacation. i’ll still have a featured blogger this saturday, but i won’t be back till next week. love to you all, alexis — Alexis

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a visual image of my multiple personalities.

October 18, 2010

i scoured my photos today looking for a picture that represents the person i see when i look in the mirror. i wasn’t entirely successful, because the me i see doesn’t really exist. the me i see is a combination of the body from four years ago (before the stomach flap that seems to be [...]

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being a woman is awesome. except when it’s not.

October 16, 2010

today’s guest post is by micheline, aka michie (me-shee) from flyrish foibles. i didn’t know what the hell a flyrish was either when we first “met” a few months ago, so i read her about page. “flyrish” is the way micheline describes herself: she is filipina and irish and a total fly girl (if you [...]

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the four words that matter most.

October 15, 2010

i hadn’t planned on posting anything today. in fact, i just got out of the shower and my hair is dripping all over my poor abused macbook. i’m getting ready for a date that sei took it upon himself to plan all on his own (yippee!), and i couldn’t be more excited. but i can’t [...]

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unveiled.

October 14, 2010

tonight i got an email asking me what happened to olivia. for those of you who don’t know who olivia is, she is a friend who i wrote about once a week for about eleven weeks. she’d been through a lot in her life, and needed some so-called peer review to help her sort through [...]

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don’t judge me. i know i’m a turd.

October 13, 2010

when was the last time you got a gift from your husband? do you remember what it was? more importantly, do you remember how you responded? i don’t necessarily remember the last gift i received from sei, but i can recall almost verbatim what happens every single time i get something from him. it’s like [...]

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the fluffiness, it feels so good.

October 11, 2010

my brain has officially melted. the timing was totally coincidental, but my last few posts happened to be about some of the biggest moral issues i’ll ever face in my life. it’s been an emotional past couple of weeks as i dealt with dissension and sometimes mean-spirited comments and tweets, but i did my best [...]

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domestic violence.

October 9, 2010

1 0f every 4 women in america will be the victim of domestic abuse at some time in her life. on average, every single day three or more women are murdered in america by their husbands or boyfriends.  i know most women think this will never happen to them, but statistics show that we are all [...]

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